It’s time to define that “thing”. Those constant chats, the “situationship”, with midnight calls, it is time to define it. It’s time to ask him “why all this attention?” and “What are you trying to achieve here?”…it’s time to discuss.
Sis,I get it, we’re hesitant to start this conversation because we don’t want to be seen as “desperate” or push him away if he doesn’t feel the same because we enjoy the attention. Let’s be honest with ourselves:those late night calls, one after another, don’t they need clarity? Don’t they mean something? Unless we’re okay fooling ourselves.
Remember, constant communication breeds emotion.
And hey, if you’re wondering “What if he doesn’t feel the same? That is the exact reason why you need to find out early! because you are there feeling butterflies where there’s nothing, meanwhile your emotional well-being isn’t a game.
Seeking clarity and accountability doesn’t make us sound desperate. It shows that we have respect for ourselves enough to seek clarity. Nothing stings more than investing months in something that to him, was …just nothing.
You’re worth the accountability, don’t lose yourself trying to be “cool” about things that matters to your heart.
Care for your heart enough to know where you stand.
~Leyewrites🦋😚